Emily is a warm and friendly English teacher from the Midwest. She loves helping students speak American English in real-life situations. Today, Emily will share her special tips for small talk, which is important for making friends and connecting with others. Small talk can feel hard, but it is easier than you think!
Small talk is a simple conversation about everyday things. It is not deep or serious. For example, you might talk about the weather or your weekend plans. Emily believes small talk is very important. It helps you practice English and makes you feel more comfortable.
When you meet someone new, start with a smile and a greeting. You can say, «Hi! How are you?» This is friendly and easy. (Привет! Как дела?) After that, ask a simple question about the person. You might ask, «What do you like to do?» or «Have you seen any good movies recently?» (Что тебе нравится делать? / Ты видел(а) хорошие фильмы недавно?) These questions are great because they get people talking.
Emily also says to listen carefully. When someone answers your question, show interest. Nod your head and smile. You can say, «Really? That sounds interesting!» (Действительно? Это звучит интересно!) This shows you care about what they are saying. Listening is just as important as speaking when having small talk.
Another great tip is to find common interests. If someone mentions a hobby, you can share your own. For example, if they like basketball, you can say, «I love basketball too! Who is your favorite player?» (Я тоже люблю баскетбол! Кто твой любимый игрок?) This way, you both have something to discuss.
Lastly, Emily reminds us that it is okay to ask for help. If you do not understand something, don’t be shy. You can say, «Sorry, can you explain that?» (Извини, можешь объяснить это?) Most people are happy to help you understand better.
Here are some useful phrases for small talk:
1. «What do you do for fun?» (Что ты любишь делать для удовольствия?)
2. «Have you traveled anywhere interesting?» (Ты путешествовал(а) где-нибудь интересном?)
3. «What kind of music do you like?» (Какую музыку ты любишь?)
4. «Do you have any pets?» (У тебя есть домашние животные?)
5. «How was your weekend?» (Как прошел твой уикенд?)
Small talk helps you connect with others. It can feel challenging, but it is very rewarding. Use Emily’s tips to start conversations and practice your English. Remember, everyone loves to talk about their own experiences. So be confident, ask questions, and enjoy the chat! Small talk can open doors to friendship and more.